Friends? Nah...not really..

Had a very unproductive day! Sighhhhhhh..................was planning to finish 3 chapters in all but only managed to finish one! Blah.

Well...besides being unproductive, my day was alright. Spent so much time with my uni mates. Oh oh....and I had this friend who dragged me along into this photo taking machine and we ended up taking photos, and having them edited till the point of non-recognition. Hahaha...was my first time. Really had so much time with them. Come to think of it, I have not been having so much fun myself, maybe I have been thinking about others too much? Time to let go of people and start guarding my heart...I guess.

Why did I just say that? Well, sometimes we tend to place high expectations in people and when they let us down, we get more frustrated and dissapointed don't we? How bout God? God has placed so much trust and love in us but we still let Him down so often. How do you think He feels?

Okok, think about this. I had this friend that I would consider being close to, if anything happen to him/her, I would definitely rush out of my place immediately just to help him/her(let's call the friend X). So when there are no issues, we continue fooling, talking, and sharing problems. However, one day when I needed so much help, this friend stopped answering my calls and returning calls. Why was my dissapointment and frustration more compared to a normal friend letting me down. The ANSWER is simple, you place higher expectations in certain people that when they let you down, you feel betrayed and isolated.

Hey friends, if that is how you feel sometimes, you are not alone. So how do I handle such issues?

1. Look to God!

2. Place your trust in God.

3. Learn to guard your heart.

4. Let go of people who has hurt you.

5. Move on and start investing in other friendships!

So yeah! Move on....am sure that X friend of yours doesn't care bout your life! So why be hurt and rejected?

Jesus loves you no matter what. ;)